Relationship Therapy

Love. . . Writers write about it. Crooners croon about it. It’s been romanticized, aggrandized, and commoditized. We seek it. We feel we’ve found it. Often to see it sadly slip away. Who can you turn to? Who can you talk to? Who will understand? We’ll work to quietly help you learn to love another, as well as yourself. And steadily shed the spectre of unrequited love.

Some folks feel like real losers, when in reality they’re not. They’ve just been blinded by folks who think they’re real winners, when in reality they’re not. Effective therapy can help folks see that in a world of who’s up and who’s down what really matters is not what others think of you, but who you know you are. Then, you can pursue life with a zest that puts you miles ahead of the rest.

What is love anyway? The best definition I’ve come up with is: When one person wants the satisfaction of the other as much as their own. Not more; that’s narcissistic. Not less; that’s masochistic. Pretty simple. Yet pretty hard to achieve. Because we’re often so clueless to ourselves. And can’t see the forest for the trees. So what is a person to do? Together, we can help you quietly clear a field of contentment. Instead of whacking in the weeds, until you feel hopelessly lo

We would like to think that we live our lives in the real world. Yet, in reality, that’s not the case. Everything out there that we take in through our senses is filtered and interpreted through our individual psychology. In the process, we put our own spin on it all, one that strongly influences our feelings, our thoughts, our words, and of course, our actions.

Brides and bridegroom should be able to look forward to it. Yet, the frenzied fantasy promoted by the pursuit of prenuptial perfection is enough to drive anyone out of their proverbial minds. Because you’ve got the rest of your lives ahead of you. And you don’t want to doom domesticity because of a bad bouquet.